What is maturity ?

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Maturity is not measured by an age, it’s an attitude, built by knowledge and experience.

Maturity is when we discuss about ideas, get illumined and being a candle instead of beefing about people and being a fish tank.

Maturity is when we learn to focus on a positive instead of a negative.

Maturity is when we stop trying to change others, instead focus on changing own self.

Maturity is when we accept people as they are.

Maturity is when we understand everyone is right in their own perspective.

Maturity is when we learn to "let go".

Maturity is when we are able to drop "expectations" from a relationship and give for the sake of giving.

Maturity is when we feel good and respect own self and others.

Maturity is when we learn to be fully present in now.

Maturity is when we complain less and fill our heart with gratitude for what we have.

Maturity is when we think more and worry less.

Maturity is when we do work as worship, whatever may be.

Maturity is when we understand whatever we do, we do for our own peace.

Maturity is when we stop proving to the world, how intelligent we are.

Maturity is when we don't seek approval from others.

Maturity is when we stop comparing with others.

Maturity is when we are at peace and content with our self.

Maturity is when we are able to differentiate between "need" and "want" and are able to let go of our wants.

& last but most meaningful !

We gain maturity when we stop attaching "happiness" to material things !!

Maturity is not when we start talking big things; it is when we start understanding small things. Wishing all a happy matured life.

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